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Sometimes, even the most privileged calls come with a great deal of pain. Mary's (the mother of Jesus) story serves as a reminder of this truth. It can encourage us to trust the One who writes our own stories.

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December 2018

Finding inspiration from my own favorite Christmas carol, we find ourselves transported to that Holy Night more than 2000 years ago, when Hope came to this world.

The latest from His Dearly Loved Daughter :
How to Respond to the Infinite God of the Bible 
From God's Word

How to Respond to the Infinite God of the Bible 

For the past four weeks we’ve been studying the Bible to learn some of what the Infinite God has revealed...
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Getting to Know God the Spirit 
From God's Word

Getting to Know God the Spirit 

We’ve been working our way through a study of the One God of the Bible. In week one we examined...
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Getting to Know God the Son 
From God's Word

Getting to Know God the Son 

We have embarked upon a 5-week study to know God.  We started by learning about the Trinity - three Persons...
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Getting to Know God the Father 
From God's Word

Getting to Know God the Father 

Last week we decided to take a little break from all the betrayal trauma stuff and spend some time studying...
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Getting to Know God through the Trinity 
From God's Word

Getting to Know God through the Trinity 

Let’s take a little break from all the sexual addiction and betrayal trauma content and spend a few weeks just...
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How to Move Past the Pain: Looking Beyond Yourself when Jesus is Calling
Africa Stories Healing from Betrayal Trauma

How to Move Past the Pain: Looking Beyond Yourself when Jesus is Calling

You guys, God is doing a work in my heart! Jesus is calling to me. I have been processing with...
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Is it Real Recovery? How to Recognize the Fruit of the Spirit
Restoring a Broken Marriage

Is it Real Recovery? How to Recognize the Fruit of the Spirit

For the past two weeks we've been digging into Galatians 5 to help us understand the quantifiable differences between a...
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Is it Real Recovery? How to Recognize the Fruit of the Flesh
Restoring a Broken Marriage

Is it Real Recovery? How to Recognize the Fruit of the Flesh

Last week we started dissecting Galatians 5 in order to understand the difference between a person who is truly in...
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Is it Real Recovery? How to Read the Evidence.
Restoring a Broken Marriage

Is it Real Recovery? How to Read the Evidence.

*This series was originally a single (VERY long) post entitled "How to Know if Recovery is Real" published in October...
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Stories from Other Dearly Loved Daughters – Kerry
Stories from Other Dearly Loved Daughters

Stories from Other Dearly Loved Daughters – Kerry

Introduction from Esther One of the great experiences of this terrible journey through recovery from intimate betrayal has been the...
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Psalms 91 – How to Understand and Trust the Promises of God 
From God's Word Healing from Betrayal Trauma

Psalms 91 – How to Understand and Trust the Promises of God 

It is imperative to a life of victory that we learn how to properly understand and then trust the promises...
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How to Get Started with In-Depth Bible Study
My Identity in Christ

How to Get Started with In-Depth Bible Study

What does your personal Bible study look like? If you're familiar with this blog at all, it's no secret to you that I am completely in love with the Word of God! I have spent my life reading and studying it, falling deeper and deeper in love with its life-giving words, and with the One who gave them. My primary mission in writing is, and has always been, to point others to its truth in hopes that it will provide the hope and healing to others that it has brought to me and to my love. I spend a lot of time showing you what the Bible says about a lot of things, but I think it's high time I challenge you to learn how to go find those truths for yourselves!
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How Biblical Boundaries Put God in Control
Biblical Boundaries

How Biblical Boundaries Put God in Control

If you've been with us for the past 5 weeks, we've been working our way through a series on Biblical boundaries. We've learned a lot! Today, we're finally going to wrap this series up with a quick reminder of who's in control. What it's so easy to forget in the midst of all the chaos of life is that being obedient to God in this area (really in any area) allows us to step out of the way and Him to do His work. It puts God in control!
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How do I Set Biblical Boundaries? 5 Steps (with printable worksheet) to Get You Started. 
Biblical Boundaries

How do I Set Biblical Boundaries? 5 Steps (with printable worksheet) to Get You Started. 

We've spent the past four weeks learning what the Bible has to say about boundaries. Now it's time to take what we've learned and figure out how to practically apply it. Today, we're answering the question, "How do I actually set Biblical boundaries?" It's time to come up with a strategy for laying out our borders, building our fences, and installing our gates. In case you've missed the earlier parts of this series, here's what we've been learning (it builds the foundation for what we'll do today, so you might want to catch up!)
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5 Rules for Making Boundaries Clearly Laid Out in Scripture
Biblical Boundaries

5 Rules for Making Boundaries Clearly Laid Out in Scripture

We've been spending some time learning about Biblical boundaries over the past 3 weeks. We've already spent two weeks defining and laying out some Biblical principles surrounding the establishment of good, healthy boundaries, and there are still 2 more weeks to go. Today we ask, what's a boundary rule, and what does the Bible say about setting them?
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5 More Principles about Biblical Boundaries we Learn from God.
Biblical Boundaries

5 More Principles about Biblical Boundaries we Learn from God.

Building on the five principles we learned last week, we'll continue to look to the boundaries God enacts throughout the pages of Scripture in order to better understand what healthy boundaries look like.
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5 Principles about Healthy Boundaries we Learn from God.
Biblical Boundaries

5 Principles about Healthy Boundaries we Learn from God.

As followers of Christ, our goal is to become like Him. For that reason, there is much we can learn about what healthy boundaries look like based simply on how He makes boundaries with us. Here are 5 principles we can learn by observing His example.
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Defining Boundaries – God’s Way 
Biblical Boundaries

Defining Boundaries – God’s Way 

Establishing strong, Biblical boundaries is one of the hardest, yet most important things for a betrayed wife to do. Really, for any believer to do. Unfortunately, it's a task that leaves most of us wondering where and how to even start. Many of us have spent our lives believing that unconditional love looks different than the Bible actually describes it. But God sets strong boundaries with us, and He makes it clear in Scripture that we are to do the same in our relationships. All of them. So, we're going to spend the next 6 weeks exploring what the Bible has to say about boundaries. We'll learn what Biblical boundaries look like, how to set them up, and how being obedient in this area ultimately puts God in control.
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Africa 2018 – Another Open Door
Africa Stories

Africa 2018 – Another Open Door

Just in case you haven't heard the news yet, our family is going back to Africa in a little more...
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Psalms 19 – Seeking God No Matter What 
From God's Word

Psalms 19 – Seeking God No Matter What 

When hearts are broken, seeking God is often the last thing we want to do. The enemy is quick to...
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