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At His Dearly Loved Daughter, we're finding healing in Christ after intimate betrayal. Whether you're healing from betrayal trauma, working to recover from a sexual addiction, restoring a broken marriage, or learning to find your identity in Christ, we've got something for you! So grab your Bible, a box of tissues, and a cup of coffee, and let's lean into God as we heal together!

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How to Find Truth in Relationships Defined by Lies

How to Find Truth in Relationships Defined by Lies

How to Find Truth in Relationships Defined by Lies Without question, one of the most difficult parts of recovering from intimate betrayal is learning how and when to start allowing trust to be rebuilt. This becomes especially difficult when there have been multiple betrayals strung out over long periods of ...
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Following God when Faith Costs You Everything – 2

*This is a true story, but names have been changed and places have been kept very vague. The people in this story live in a part of the world where Christians are persecuted for their faith. Telling their story puts them in danger, but they want people to know what ...
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Following God when Faith Costs You Everything – Part 1

Following God when Faith Costs You Everything - Part 1 *This is a true story, but names have been changed and places have been kept very vague. The people in this story live in a part of the world where Christians are persecuted for their faith. Telling their story puts ...
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Finding Courage When God Opens Doors

Finding Courage When God Opens Doors There are so many multi-pronged forks in the road we walk throughout our life! I prefer to look at it as a massive building with more rooms than we'll ever have time to visit; each room connected to others by long hallways on all ...
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Moses Taught My Love How to Be a Rockstar

Moses Taught My Love How to Be a Rockstar I told you back here how much my love has been growing spiritually and promised to talk more about it soon. Today is the last day of our 90 day therapeutic separation so it seems like a great time to celebrate ...
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How to Rest in the Names of God

How to Rest in the Names of God

How to Rest in the Names of God I've mentioned before that sometimes, when I can't sleep, (particularly when my mind is racing) I'll play a little game with myself. It's an attempt to focus my thoughts on God and thank Him for who He is. At the same time, ...
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Psalms 56 - To the Women Down in the Trenches

Psalms 56: For the Women Down in the Trenches

Psalms 56: For the Women Down in the Trenches At the moment, my story is full of hope. My love is seeking and following God and the Holy Spirit is doing a mighty work and making him new. Our faithful God is healing me, He is healing our children, and ...
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Growing Faith and Moving Mountains (Part Two)

Growing Faith and Moving Mountains (Part Two) An Update to Our Story from the Past 45 Days "Afterward the disciples asked Jesus privately, 'Why couldn't we cast out that demon?''You don't have enough faith,' Jesus told them. 'I tell you the truth, if you had faith even as small as ...
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Growing Faith and Moving Mountains (Part One)

Growing Faith and Moving Mountains (Part One) An Update to Our Story from the Past 45 Days Well, we're halfway through the 90 day therapeutic separation. I thought it would be a good idea to give a little update because God has been doing some big stuff! We ended up ...
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Your Sexually Addicted Spouse – A Book Review

I have just read, Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal, by Barbara Steffens, PhD, LPCC, and Marsha Means, MA. (You can click this affiliate link to buy the book on Amazon.) I have to say, this is one of the best books on surviving infidelity I ...
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Stars - When God Sings to You by Name

Stars: When God Sings to You by Name

Stars: When God Sings to You by Name Do you ever come across a song that seems to have been written just for you? Or, do you ever turn the radio on and feel like God orchestrated the song that was playing right at that moment so that He could ...
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Why I Want to Have Faith Like Joseph

Why I Want to have Faith Like Joseph

Why I Want to have Faith Like Joseph We're working our way through a really great book in our family devotions. It's called The Story of the Bible, by Beverly Hubbard. I highly recommend it. Anyhow, tonight our reading covered the story of Joseph. I've always been fascinated by Joseph's ...
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The Next Ninety Days – Our Therapeutic Separation

*This is the story of our Therapeutic Separation. What you read below is what I wrote the night my love moved out to start our 90-day time apart. God taught us a lot during this time, and you can read the updates in Growing Faith and Moving Mountains Part One ...
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Our Story Part 3 - Facing off with the Monster

Our Story Part 3: Facing Off with the Monster

Our Story Part 3: Facing Off with the Monster When I wrote this post, I was believing God that this wasn't the end of our story. I was hoping and praying that there were many more chapters to come – wonderful chapters. But this was the chapter we were in ...
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Our Story Part 2 - The Slow Fade

Our Story Part 2: The Slow Fade

Our Story Part 2: The Slow Fade The slow fade is what I'm calling the part of our story in between the first five or six years of marriage and the years when we faced off with the monster that threatened to tear us apart. These middle years were all ...
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Looking for more support as you heal from betrayal trauma?

Do you love the blog, but find yourself wishing there was more support available to you? Good news!

At His Dearly Loved Daughter Ministries, we offer an ever growing list of resources to help you. Check out our Ministry Page to find our coaching services, online classes and groups, and information about our speaking ministry.

If you're a betrayed wife who is deeply committed to seeking and following God and His will as you heal, we'd love to have you in our Facebook support group! Message Cherith today and we'll get you added.