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At His Dearly Loved Daughter, we're finding healing in Christ after intimate betrayal. Whether you're healing from betrayal trauma, working to recover from a sexual addiction, restoring a broken marriage, or learning to find your identity in Christ, we've got something for you! So grab your Bible, a box of tissues, and a cup of coffee, and let's lean into God as we heal together!

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Communicating God’s Way: The Importance of Forgiveness and Humility

Forgiveness is a big word surrounded by a lot of confusion. Some other time we’ll talk much more about the ins and outs of it, and when we should and should not forgive. (I’m in the research phase of that project.) But today what we want to deal with is ...
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I Am Complete in Christ and Deeply Rooted in God's Love

I Am Complete in Christ and Deeply Rooted in God’s Love.

I hope you've been following along with our Identified Series. We are using the book of Ephesians to help us discover our identity in Christ. (Catch up here) Today we want to let some truths from Scripture sink down like roots that keep us strong in the Lord. When I'm ...
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Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop: Is He Still Lying to Me?

Often, when lies have defined a relationship for many years, we’re left wondering, will I ever stop waiting for the other shoe to drop? Even after years of solid recovery, many of us find ourselves struggling to believe we're not still being lied to. How can we ever know for ...
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Communicating God’s Way – Tell the Truth!

Communicating God’s Way – Tell the Truth! We’ve been studying what the Bible has to say about communication, and this week it’s all about how important it is that we all tell the truth. All the time. We need to be deeply committed, as the saying goes, to tell the truth, the whole truth, ...
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I Am Part of God's Eternal Plan Revealed

I Am Part of God’s Eternal Plan Revealed

We’ve been working our way through the book of Ephesians, learning to identify ourselves according to God’s definitions and not those of the world or the enemy. (Catch up here) Today we’re learning about our part in God's eternal plan, which He has revealed to us through Scripture. Many generations ...
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Healing is Not Linear: Navigating Stages of Betrayal Recovery

People far wiser than myself have named three stages to the process of healing from Betrayal Trauma, and as a survivor, I can definitely find pieces of my own story in each of those stages of betrayal recovery. But I’m here to tell you, the journey to healing is not ...
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Manipulation Tactics Part Two

Common Manipulation (Gaslighting) Tactics and How to Respond- Part Two

Common Manipulation (Gaslighting) Tactics and How to Respond - Part Two We’re talking about what it means to communicate God’s way, and last week we talked about some of the most common ways we use manipulation (gaslighting) to mess this up. We all sometimes choose to play games rather than ...
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Manipulation Tactics Part One

Common Manipulation Tactics and How to Respond to them – Part One

Common Manipulation Tactics and How to Respond to them - Part One We can’t adequately cover the topic of communication in this series without addressing the ways in which we choose to manipulate and play games rather than speak plainly and honestly, or the times when we’re more interested in ...
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I Am the Body of Christ and the Temple of the Holy Spirit

I Am Part of the Body of Christ, God’s Holy Temple.

We’ve been working our way through the book of Ephesians, learning to identify ourselves according to God’s definitions (Click to catch up) and not those of the world or the enemy. Today we'll discover what God has to say about our identity as part of the Body of Christ, and ...
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What should I do about his porn problem? 8 First steps for wives

What should I do about his porn problem? 8“First Steps” for Wives

What should I do about his porn problem?8“First Steps” for Wives Here you are, you’ve found yourself in that terrible place which has become a reality for countless wives across the world. You’ve discovered his porn problem. Maybe you’ve known for a while that he looked here and there, or ...
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Our asinine tendency to presume and assume

Communicating God’s Way – Our Asinine Tendency to Presume and Assume

Communicating God’s Way - Our Asinine Tendency to Presume and Assume We’ve been spending some time learning to communicate within our marriages according to the principles set forth in Scripture, so before we start talking about our tendency to presume and assume, lets recap a little of what we’ve already ...
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I Am a Citizen of the Kingdom of God, and of God's Covenant Promise

I Am a Citizen of the Kingdom and of God’s Covenant Promise

We're talking about covenants today. Specifically, God's covenant promise to us, and how it fits into the Old Testament and all the promises to Israel we find there. We’ve been working through a study of the book of Ephesians in order to better understand how we have been identified as ...
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A time to mourn: The Importance of Grieving an Intimate Betrayal

A Time to Mourn – The Importance of Grieving an Intimate Betrayal

Sadness, grief, deep sorrow; these are things that make us uncomfortable. In times of loss, we’re quick to call for healing both in ourselves and in others because we don’t want to deal with the painful emotions involved in the stages of grief. But the reality is, when we’ve suffered ...
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Communicating God's Way: Learn to Listen

Communicating God’s Way: Learn to Listen!

Communicating God’s Way: Learn to Listen! We're learning to communicate God’s way as we work our way through a series intent on finding the areas in which we ruin marital communication, and re-aligning them with God’s desires. Today we’re going to discuss the importance of listening. Really listening. Not just ...
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I am Alive in Christ, God's Masterpiece

I am Alive in Christ, God’s Masterpiece

We’ve embarked on a study of the book of Ephesians in order to better understand who we are in Christ. First, we learned how to be saved according to the Bible and took the time to be sure our identity can be found in Him as His holy people. Then ...
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Looking for more support as you heal from betrayal trauma?

Do you love the blog, but find yourself wishing there was more support available to you? Good news!

At His Dearly Loved Daughter Ministries, we offer an ever growing list of resources to help you. Check out our Ministry Page to find our coaching services, online classes and groups, and information about our speaking ministry.

If you're a betrayed wife who is deeply committed to seeking and following God and His will as you heal, we'd love to have you in our Facebook support group! Message Cherith today and we'll get you added.