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At His Dearly Loved Daughter, we're finding healing in Christ after intimate betrayal. Whether you're healing from betrayal trauma, working to recover from a sexual addiction, restoring a broken marriage, or learning to find your identity in Christ, we've got something for you! So grab your Bible, a box of tissues, and a cup of coffee, and let's lean into God as we heal together!

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I Am the Body of Christ and the Temple of the Holy Spirit

I Am Part of the Body of Christ, God’s Holy Temple.

We’ve been working our way through the book of Ephesians, learning to identify ourselves according to God’s definitions (Click to catch up) and not those of the world or the enemy. Today we'll discover what God has to say about our identity as part of the Body of Christ, and ...
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What should I do about his porn problem? 8 First steps for wives

What should I do about his porn problem? 8“First Steps” for Wives

What should I do about his porn problem?8“First Steps” for Wives Here you are, you’ve found yourself in that terrible place which has become a reality for countless wives across the world. You’ve discovered his porn problem. Maybe you’ve known for a while that he looked here and there, or ...
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Our asinine tendency to presume and assume

Communicating God’s Way – Our Asinine Tendency to Presume and Assume

Communicating God’s Way - Our Asinine Tendency to Presume and Assume We’ve been spending some time learning to communicate within our marriages according to the principles set forth in Scripture, so before we start talking about our tendency to presume and assume, lets recap a little of what we’ve already ...
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I Am a Citizen of the Kingdom of God, and of God's Covenant Promise

I Am a Citizen of the Kingdom and of God’s Covenant Promise

We're talking about covenants today. Specifically, God's covenant promise to us, and how it fits into the Old Testament and all the promises to Israel we find there. We’ve been working through a study of the book of Ephesians in order to better understand how we have been identified as ...
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A time to mourn: The Importance of Grieving an Intimate Betrayal

A Time to Mourn – The Importance of Grieving an Intimate Betrayal

Sadness, grief, deep sorrow; these are things that make us uncomfortable. In times of loss, we’re quick to call for healing both in ourselves and in others because we don’t want to deal with the painful emotions involved in the stages of grief. But the reality is, when we’ve suffered ...
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Communicating God's Way: Learn to Listen

Communicating God’s Way: Learn to Listen!

Communicating God’s Way: Learn to Listen! We're learning to communicate God’s way as we work our way through a series intent on finding the areas in which we ruin marital communication, and re-aligning them with God’s desires. Today we’re going to discuss the importance of listening. Really listening. Not just ...
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I am Alive in Christ, God's Masterpiece

I am Alive in Christ, God’s Masterpiece

We’ve embarked on a study of the book of Ephesians in order to better understand who we are in Christ. First, we learned how to be saved according to the Bible and took the time to be sure our identity can be found in Him as His holy people. Then ...
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My "Persistent Widow's" Prayer

My “Persistent Widow’s” Prayer

My "Persistent Widow's" Prayer I was reminded recently of the years upon years I spent repeating the same prayer over and over, and over again to God. For nearly a decade and a half I suited up, fell on my face before the Lord, and went to war for my ...
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Communicating God's Way: How to get rid of that pesky log in your eye

Humility: How to Get Rid of that Log in Your Eye

Communicating God’s Way Part II: HumilityHow to Get Rid of that Pesky Log in Your Eye Before we get into the specifics of communication, let’s prepare our hearts. It’s essential that our intentions as we proceed be in line with those of our Heavenly Father. This begins from a place ...
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I Am Chosen by God, Purchased by His Blood, and Adopted by God

I am Chosen by God, Purchased by His Blood, and Adopted by God.

We have started our Identified series (click for the whole thing) and we established how to be saved according to the Bible. Now, let’s dig into the first chapter of Ephesians to learn more about our identity in Christ. There are a lot of places we can look to find ...
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Triggered: Practical Steps to Overcome the Debilitating Reminders Around Every Corner

Triggered: Practical Steps to Overcome the Debilitating Reminders Around Every Corner

Triggered: Practical Steps to Overcome the Debilitating Reminders Around Every Corner Being triggered is a very real, very natural, and very agonizing aspect of recovery from betrayal (or any other) trauma. The term refers to the moments when we are very suddenly and unexpectedly reminded of our pain and upheaval ...
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Communicating God's Way: How to Heal Broken Relationships by Applying Biblical Concepts to Marital Communication

Communicating God’s Way Series Intro

Communicating God’s Way:How to Heal Broken Relationships by Applying Biblical Concepts to Marital Communication. Series Intro Terrible communication is likely one of the most common roadblocks to healing in broken marriages. Unfortunately, we’re just really, really bad (like as a people) at communicating with each other. We’re selfish, we jump ...
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How to Be Saved According to the Bible

How to be Saved According to the Bible to Find my Identity in Christ

There are a million steps we have to work through in order to recover from intimate betrayal, but I believe the first (and most critical) is to re-establish who we are. I have to learn to find my identity in Christ! Too often we have lost ourselves in the midst ...
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When Pride Kills Mercy - The Great Tragedy of Jonah

When Pride Kills Mercy – The Great Tragedy of Jonah

When Pride Kills Mercy: The Great Tragedy of Jonah There’s an ugly little truth about the human spirit that tends to show up somewhere along the way in the process of healing from a betrayal: People want revenge. Somewhere deep inside we all want to see those who have wronged ...
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New Year, New Look, and all the New Things at HDLD Ministries

New Year, New Look, and All the New Things at HDLD Ministries

New Year, New Look, and All the New Things at HDLD Ministries Happy New Year from HDLD Ministries! It's time for an update, so stick with me to the end to see how you can get entered into our New Year Giveaway! Here we are, it's 2019, and there are ...
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Looking for more support as you heal from betrayal trauma?

Do you love the blog, but find yourself wishing there was more support available to you? Good news!

At His Dearly Loved Daughter Ministries, we offer an ever growing list of resources to help you. Check out our Ministry Page to find our coaching services, online classes and groups, and information about our speaking ministry.

If you're a betrayed wife who is deeply committed to seeking and following God and His will as you heal, we'd love to have you in our Facebook support group! Message Cherith today and we'll get you added.