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At His Dearly Loved Daughter, we're finding healing in Christ after intimate betrayal. Whether you're healing from betrayal trauma, working to recover from a sexual addiction, restoring a broken marriage, or learning to find your identity in Christ, we've got something for you! So grab your Bible, a box of tissues, and a cup of coffee, and let's lean into God as we heal together!

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Addiction, Lies, and Relationships

It's time to address a very important reality about addiction, lies, and relationships. When we're active in our addiction, or even at the beginning stages of recovery, it can be difficult to understand why confession is SO important. The enemy tells us we're protecting the people we love by not ...
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How to Let Go of Control in a Relationship

There is a fundamental truth about addiction, or any willful sin for that matter, and it is that the problem is never the fault of anyone but the addict (or the sinner). If someone we love is battling addiction, it absolutely is NOT our fault. However, there are things we ...
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Psalm 37: How to Trust God in Difficult Times

After facing an intimate betrayal, or any other trial for that matter, we all have to figure out how to trust God in difficult times. We're tempted to believe that when life is hard it's somehow an indication that God has abandoned us, or that He is untrustworthy. But it ...
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Does God Love Me No Matter What?

I know it seems like a ridiculous question to many of you: "Does God love me no matter what?" For a lot of you the ability to accept God's love for what it is doesn't present any problems. You think, "Of course He loves you, He died for you!" But ...
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Communicating God’s Way: Taming the Tongue

Is there anything more central to communicating God’s way than taming the tongue? I mean, if we could all somehow learn just to control what comes out of our mouths, being sure that every word was pleasing to God, and nothing more, I feel certain we’d see dramatic improvement in ...
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I Am Uniquely Gifted and Called by God to Serve

I am Uniquely Gifted and Called by God to Serve His Church

I hope you've been following along with our Identified Series. We're working our way through the book of Ephesians in order to find our identity in Christ.(Click to catch up.) Today we’re learning about our calling and gifting. Our identity in Christ is such a wonderful, mighty identity that it ...
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I Think We Need a Separation in our Marriage. What Does the Bible say?

If I were to do a google search of the words, "separation in marriage bible" what do you think I'd find? Well, I'd find it's something people are searching, and I'm not surprised. When we were going through the very early stages of recovery, separation wasn’t really on our radar, ...
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Communicating God’s Way: The Importance of Forgiveness and Humility

Forgiveness is a big word surrounded by a lot of confusion. Some other time we’ll talk much more about the ins and outs of it, and when we should and should not forgive. (I’m in the research phase of that project.) But today what we want to deal with is ...
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I Am Complete in Christ and Deeply Rooted in God's Love

I Am Complete in Christ and Deeply Rooted in God’s Love.

I hope you've been following along with our Identified Series. We are using the book of Ephesians to help us discover our identity in Christ. (Catch up here) Today we want to let some truths from Scripture sink down like roots that keep us strong in the Lord. When I'm ...
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Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop: Is He Still Lying to Me?

Often, when lies have defined a relationship for many years, we’re left wondering, will I ever stop waiting for the other shoe to drop? Even after years of solid recovery, many of us find ourselves struggling to believe we're not still being lied to. How can we ever know for ...
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Communicating God’s Way – Tell the Truth!

Communicating God’s Way – Tell the Truth! We’ve been studying what the Bible has to say about communication, and this week it’s all about how important it is that we all tell the truth. All the time. We need to be deeply committed, as the saying goes, to tell the truth, the whole truth, ...
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I Am Part of God's Eternal Plan Revealed

I Am Part of God’s Eternal Plan Revealed

We’ve been working our way through the book of Ephesians, learning to identify ourselves according to God’s definitions and not those of the world or the enemy. (Catch up here) Today we’re learning about our part in God's eternal plan, which He has revealed to us through Scripture. Many generations ...
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Healing is Not Linear: Navigating Stages of Betrayal Recovery

People far wiser than myself have named three stages to the process of healing from Betrayal Trauma, and as a survivor, I can definitely find pieces of my own story in each of those stages of betrayal recovery. But I’m here to tell you, the journey to healing is not ...
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Common Manipulation (Gaslighting) Tactics and How to Respond- Part Two

Common Manipulation (Gaslighting) Tactics and How to Respond - Part Two We’re talking about what it means to communicate God’s way, and last week we talked about some of the most common ways we use manipulation (gaslighting) to mess this up. We all sometimes choose to play games rather than ...
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Common Manipulation Tactics and How to Respond to them – Part One

Common Manipulation Tactics and How to Respond to them - Part One We can’t adequately cover the topic of communication in this series without addressing the ways in which we choose to manipulate and play games rather than speak plainly and honestly, or the times when we’re more interested in ...
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Looking for more support as you heal from betrayal trauma?

Do you love the blog, but find yourself wishing there was more support available to you? Good news!

At His Dearly Loved Daughter Ministries, we offer an ever growing list of resources to help you. Check out our Ministry Page to find our coaching services, online classes and groups, and information about our speaking ministry.

If you're a betrayed wife who is deeply committed to seeking and following God and His will as you heal, we'd love to have you in our Facebook support group! Message Cherith today and we'll get you added.