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At His Dearly Loved Daughter, we're finding healing in Christ after intimate betrayal. Whether you're healing from betrayal trauma, working to recover from a sexual addiction, restoring a broken marriage, or learning to find your identity in Christ, we've got something for you! So grab your Bible, a box of tissues, and a cup of coffee, and let's lean into God as we heal together!

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Communicating God's Way: Learn to Listen

Communicating God’s Way: Learn to Listen!

Communicating God’s Way: Learn to Listen! We're learning to communicate God’s way as we work our way through a series intent on finding the areas in which we ruin marital communication, and re-aligning them with God’s desires. Today we’re going to discuss the importance of listening. Really listening. Not just ...
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Who Am I? I am Alive in Christ, a New and Beautiful Creation

Who Am I? I am Alive in Christ, a New and Beautiful Masterpiece

Identified Who Am I? I am Alive in Christ, a New and Beautiful Masterpiece Ephesians 2:1-10 We’ve embarked on a study of the book of Ephesians in order to better understand who we are in Christ. First, we looked at the introduction to the book of Ephesians and took the time to ...
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My "Persistent Widow's" Prayer

My “Persistent Widow’s” Prayer

My "Persistent Widow's" Prayer I was reminded recently of the years upon years I spent repeating the same prayer over and over, and over again to God. For nearly a decade and a half I suited up, fell on my face before the Lord, and went to war for my ...
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Communicating God's Way: How to get rid of that pesky log in your eye

Humility: How to Get Rid of that Log in Your Eye

Communicating God’s Way Part II: HumilityHow to Get Rid of that Pesky Log in Your Eye Before we get into the specifics of communication, let’s prepare our hearts. It’s essential that our intentions as we proceed be in line with those of our Heavenly Father. This begins from a place ...
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Who am I? I am chosen, purchased, and adopted by God. Ephesians 1 : The Identified series

Who Am I? I am Chosen, Purchased, and Adopted by God.

Who Am I? I am Chosen, Purchased, and Adopted by God. Ephesians 1 A few weeks ago we started our Identified series and established that the book of Ephesians was written to God’s holy people who are faithful followers of Jesus Christ. We learned how to claim that identity as our own ...
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Triggered: Practical Steps to Overcome the Debilitating Reminders Around Every Corner

Triggered: Practical Steps to Overcome the Debilitating Reminders Around Every Corner

Triggered: Practical Steps to Overcome the Debilitating Reminders Around Every Corner Being triggered is a very real, very natural, and very agonizing aspect of recovery from betrayal (or any other) trauma. The term refers to the moments when we are very suddenly and unexpectedly reminded of our pain and upheaval ...
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Communicating God's Way: How to Heal Broken Relationships by Applying Biblical Concepts to Marital Communication

Communicating God’s Way Series Intro

Communicating God’s Way:How to Heal Broken Relationships by Applying Biblical Concepts to Marital Communication. Series Intro Terrible communication is likely one of the most common roadblocks to healing in broken marriages. Unfortunately, we’re just really, really bad (like as a people) at communicating with each other. We’re selfish, we jump ...
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Identified: Who am I? Re-defining My Identity After Intimate Betrayal: A Bible-study series through the book of Ephesians

Who Am I? A Bible-study on Identity through the book of Ephesians 

There are a million steps we have to work through in order to recover from intimate betrayal, but I believe the first (and most critical) is to re-establish who we are. Too often we have lost ourselves in the midst of all the trauma and confusion. Yes, we have to ...
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When Pride Kills Mercy - The Great Tragedy of Jonah

When Pride Kills Mercy – The Great Tragedy of Jonah

When Pride Kills Mercy: The Great Tragedy of Jonah There’s an ugly little truth about the human spirit that tends to show up somewhere along the way in the process of healing from a betrayal: People want revenge. Somewhere deep inside we all want to see those who have wronged ...
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New Year, New Look, and all the New Things at HDLD Ministries

New Year, New Look, and All the New Things at HDLD Ministries

New Year, New Look, and All the New Things at HDLD Ministries Happy New Year from HDLD Ministries! It's time for an update, so stick with me to the end to see how you can get entered into our New Year Giveaway! Here we are, it's 2019, and there are ...
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How to Invite Blessing Through Thanksgiving 

How to Invite Blessing Through Thanksgiving *Republished from November 27,2017 I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving praising God with the ones you love! It's time to wrap up this Redeeming Thanksgiving series, and begin to prepare our hearts for Christmas. I gotta tell ya, writing this series has been ...
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How to Make the Enemy Flee through Thanksgiving

How to Make the Enemy Flee through Thankfulness

How to Make the Enemy Flee through Thankfulness I can't believe Thanksgiving is this Thursday! That means we're already in the fourth week of this Redeeming Thanksgiving series. If you missed out on the first three installments, I encourage you to go back and read them. We've had a wonderful ...
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6 Steps to Redeem the Holidays from the Fear of the Past

6 Steps to Redeem the Holidays from Fear of the Past – A Guest Appearance at Faith Beyond Fear

6 Steps to Redeem the Holidays from Fear of the Past - A Guest Appearance at Faith Beyond Fear Several months ago I had the honor of being asked to make a guest appearance over at Faith Beyond Fear. Of course, I was eager to accept, and when we decided ...
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How to Find Peace with a Thankful Heart

How to Find Peace with a Thankful Heart

How to Find Peace with a Thankful Heart *Republished from November 13, 2017 I hope you've been redeeming thanksgiving with me this month! If you haven't noticed, Hope for Today has also been focusing on developing a thankful heart all month. My prayer is that by the time Thanksgiving actually ...
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How to restore hope and joy by living thankful

How to Restore Hope and Joy by Living Thankful

*Republished from November 6, 2017 I hope you read Cultivating a Heart of Thanksgiving to Restore the Broken last week. In it I explained why I feel the need to take the month of November and dedicate it to learning everything we can about thanks-giving. The practice of giving thanks ...
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Looking for more support as you heal from betrayal trauma?

Do you love the blog, but find yourself wishing there was more support available to you? Good news!

At His Dearly Loved Daughter Ministries, we offer an ever growing list of resources to help you. Check out our Ministry Page to find our coaching services, online classes and groups, and information about our speaking ministry.

If you're a betrayed wife who is deeply committed to seeking and following God and His will as you heal, we'd love to have you in our Facebook support group! Message Esther today and we'll get you added.