Affair Recovery

When marriages suffer the stinging blow of betrayal we can find ourselves facing off with a monster we don’t even understand, let alone know how to conquer. If your head spins when you hear terms like sexual addiction, or co-dependent, or betrayal trauma, we want you to know, we have been right where you stand.  Whether you are looking for affair recovery for the betrayed, or for the betrayer, or even for the marriage as a whole, we have information and resources to help you find the path to hope, healing, and life-long victory. But we want you to know, the answers that actually work are those found in Scripture. Healing begins by trusting God.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will show you which path to take. Proverbs 3:5-6

We’re here because we faced these monsters ourselves, and through God’s great mercy have found healing and redemption. Now we’re sharing what God has revealed to us with the hope that others will find help and comfort in Him as well.

In “Our Story,” you will find some of the earliest posts, written when we were right in the thick of our battle. They tell the story of our journey to healing in raw, honest detail. You can also learn a little more about the ministry and our testimonies at “About HDLD Ministries.

While in most of our other categories, a small resource section seems appropriate, there are SO many resources we’ve found for affair recovery for the betrayed and the betrayer that they really needed their own dedicated page. So, while we’ll include our top recommendations here, we’ve put together a special resources page filled with many more.

A link to the His Dearly Loved Daughter Resources Page where you will find all kinds of help as you recover from intimate betrayal

Our Top Picks for:

Internet Accountability Software

You can find several options for internet accountability software on the full resources page. They are all great, but Accountable2You is what we use, and is our top recommendation.

Counseling and Coaching Services

Again, much more extensive options for counseling and coaching services are listed on the resources page, but our favorite is A Circle of Joy.

The Best Books for Affair Recovery

Need a Support Group?

There are some great options available, both through this ministry, and others. Find out more on our Support Groups page!

Or maybe you just need to chat.

Don’t stay isolated and try to face this mountain alone. Reach out today and let us walk beside you. We’ve been there. We get it!