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Affair Recovery

Has your marriage suffered the stinging blow of betrayal? Do you find yourself facing off with a monster you don't even understand, let alone know how to conquer? Does your head spin when you hear terms like sexual addiction, or co-dependent, or betrayal trauma? Oh friend, we have been where you are. We have stood where you stand. Whether you are looking for AFFAIR RECOVERY for the betrayed, or for the betrayer, or even for the marriage as a whole, we have information and resources to help you find the path to hope, healing, and life-long victory.

If you're looking for something specific, you can narrow your search by choosing one of the categories below.

Otherwise, just continue down through this page to discover the resources available through His Dearly Loved Daughter Ministries.

Healing from Betrayal Trauma
Restoring a Broken Marriage
Recovering from Sexual Addictions

It all starts with Our Story.

We're here because we faced these monsters ourselves, and through God's great mercy have found healing and redemption.
Now we're here to share what God has revealed to us in the hope that others will find help and comfort in Him.

In "Our Story," you will find some of the earliest posts, written when we were right in the thick of our battle. They tell the story of our journey to healing in raw, honest detail. You can also learn a little more about the ministry and our testimonies at "About HDLD Ministries."

Affair Recovery Posts to Get You Started

Don't miss this special appearance on the BTR Podcast.

Listen in as Cherith (who was still using the pen name Esther Hosea at the time) talks with Anne from the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast about the early stages of affair recovery for the betrayed and her choice to stay in the marriage.

Some Can't Miss Series for Affair Recovery

Affair Recovery for the Betrayed and the Betrayer
Resource Recommendations

While in most of our other categories, a small resource section seems appropriate, there are SO many resources for affair recovery for the betrayed and the betrayer we want to share with you, that they really needed their own dedicated page. So, if you click the resources page image, it will take you there. But we have included our very favorite resources for affair recovery below as well.

Internet Accountability Software

You can find several options for internet accountability software on the full resources page. They are all great, but Accountable2You is what we use, and is our top recommendation.

Counseling and Coaching Services

Again, much more extensive options for counseling and coaching services are listed on the resources page, but our favorite is A Circle of Joy.

The Best Books for Affair Recovery